Be at peace with the decisions you’ve made in life. As a result, you can transform into the person you are meant to be.
Making Decisions Sucks
Some decisions make us feel fastened into life’s seat belt unable to move. Indecisive, and fearful the next wrong decision may bring you to your knees. Making the wrong decision could burn you. Decisions are like life’s branding iron. You carry that mark around with you for eternity—but you CAN learn from the decisions you’ve made.
The Adhesion of a Wrong Decision
Ever wake up feeling stuck? I know I have.
- Relationship
- Dating
- Marriage
- Career
- Finances
- Mindset
- Skills
We’ve all been beached at some point. We’ve all been glued into position feeling like we can’t move. Stagnant thoughts of cemented footsteps. Self-defeating prophecies, and regrets of decisions past.
At some point, if you want success, happiness, and love, you have to evolve. It just takes one step in the right direction and a ton of forgiveness.
Be Intentional About What You Want Outta Life.
Do you want love in your life? Stop being negative about your chances. Stop being counterproductive and self-defeating. Own the choices you made, be at peace with the results, and grow from them.
Stop running from relationship to relationship. There’s one common denominator here… and that is you. Maybe you left too soon, maybe you stayed too long, perhaps you chose the wrong person… regardless, it has always been you. Take the steps necessary to secure what you want, and stop wasting your time in fruitless relationships that are going nowhere.
Do you want money? It’s not easy… It’s a process. You see the results of all these financially successful people. However, what you don’t see is the sacrifices it took for them to get there. The tears, the sleepless nights. The broken relationships. The setbacks. Be patient with the process and enjoy it. Once you get where you want to be, you’ll look back and appreciate the journey.
Discipline is Key
Will Smith said it best…
Self discipline is the center of all material success. You cannot win the war against the world, if you cannot win the war against your own mind.
That’s the difference between people who are on their way, already there, and those who only dream and wish. Oh… and who can forget about the haters that wish they were doing what the people (they hate) are doing.
Lastly, If that relationship isn’t working… let it go. Don’t be afraid to go back to the drawing board. The longer you hold onto a person or situation that is holding you (and probably the other person) hostage, the longer you postpone your happiness and freedom. Or, if the person you are tied to is of high character, take the dive and let yourself go. The only relationship that truly works is one where both parties are truly invested and giving their all.
Get focused, and don’t let anyone or anything steer you awry.
The choice has always been yours. Go claim your victory.
Jay Thomas
An efficacious self-made thousandaire writer that's emphatically loud-minded, and indefinitely sarcastic. With a perpetually waggish and whimsical charisma, his indefatigable mission to evolve the world continues.
