First Impression

I met Shae Primus a while back.  My first impression of her was, approachable, focused, business-savvy, engaging, with a great personality. Those are qualities you’d want in a woman you are pursuing right?  Furthermore, as a man who considered a matchmaker in the past, I wanted my matchmaker to have certain character qualities. I felt, someone who possesses those qualities, will be able to quickly identify a compatible match for me.

Who is Shae Primus?

Shae says,

Everyone deserves love.

I definitely agree. We all deserve love. But we don’t know all know how to find love.

Shae wants to help more people of color find love. The result of that dream? Middle-Class Matchmaker, the Southeast’s premier matchmaking service for professional people of color. In addition, Shae is a Certified Matchmaker and Dating Coach that has successfully matched 80+ couples in less than 2 years. Shae continues on her journey to help people find their perfect match.

Other Notables

  • Shae has a Graduate degree from the University of Georgia
  • Undergraduate degree from Clark Atlanta University
  • Also, a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated

Did You know?

Before stepping out to live her dream and passion as a matchmaker, Shae worked in corporate America for 13 years.

The Formula


Middle-Class Match

[The] flagship dating website that boasts over 70,000 members, with bi-monthly singles events. Sign up.

Conversations With Cupid

Conversations With Cupid is a live show on Instinct Radio with discussion topics centered around dating, relationships, love, and many others. The show gives multiple perspectives on the above topics. You also have viewers who add live comments on the topics being discussed.

A few ways you can catch the show and/or comment:

  • You can call-in [478-569-6474]
  • Download the Instinct Radio App.
  • View the show from
  • Or simply view from your Facebook account.  Keyword: ConversationsWithCupid.

A Lid For Every Pot


“There is A Lid For Every Pot: A Dating Guide for Single Professionals.” In her book, Shae reaches out to the masses and assists singles in preparation for dating and relationships.

We all want to find our ideal match, the lid that perfectly fits our own unique pot. But finding the right partner can often feel more like grunt work. Especially today where the modern dating world–with seemingly millions of new rules and conventions–can leave you feeling frazzled, discouraged, and frankly, unworthy.

Buy it here.

Facebook Social Group

The MCM – For Single Professionals, a Facebook social group has over 2000 members.  Most members are consistently engaged in group discussions and events. You can find topics from, “dating after divorce,” to, “how to date when you have a demanding career.” Find the group on Facebook under MCM – For Single Professionals

The group also has outings, mixers, and side events where everyone can meet and mingle.

I’ve personally been to an event and I can say, that Shae and her team, do a great job organizing.  The event was full of energy and everyone seemed to be very comfortable and engaged with one another.

Middle-Class Matchmaker

The home of the #1 Matchmaker in Atlanta, Georgia. If you’re single and you need a matchmaker, this is where you start and end your journey.

Middle-Class Matchmaker focuses on relationship readiness and building lasting black love connections. Dating Coaching assesses readiness and prepares singles for a healthy relationship. Matchmaking helps a person who is ready for love connect to the one who is compatible with them. In addition, the singles events, mixers, and relationship/dating round-table discussions coordinated by the Middle-Class Matchmaker team will cultivate a comfortable environment for participants to become more open and involved in LOVE.